At this point you know what your primary love style is, and what growth looks like for that style. As you distance yourself from your unhealthy love style and make progress toward a secure connection, it’s easy to become discouraged or wonder how successful you are due to the shifting, organic nature of relationships.
In addition, use this Secure Connector Quiz as a way to keep perspective on your journey. Take this quiz to rate yourself now, and then do it again in a few months to monitor your growth. Keep in mind that our first book, How We Love and it’s companion, the How We Love Workbook, will prove to be invaluable tools during your journey.
For each statement, simply choose whether that statement generally reflects you.
This quiz takes about 5 minutes to complete.